Man who lives with 2 girlfriends wants third woman to join them

Man who lives with 2 girlfriends wants third woman to join them
Published: 2015 April 14 21:54:58 (12692 Views)
A 34-year-old man who lives with his two girlfriends, Brooke Shedd, 26, and Jane Shalakhova, 25 wants a third girlfriend to join them.

Adam Lyons and Brooke have just had to a baby boy, Dante and the three hope to raise their child together in Los Angeles, US.

The trio - who share a super-kingsize bed and take it in turns to have romantic date nights together - insist that they can provide a loving family environment for their newborn.

Adam, from east London, says: 'We're just like any other family. Except in ours, there'll be one dad and two mums who live under the same roof - and there'll be nothing but love for our children.

Brooke, who already has a five-year-old son, Oliver from a previous relationship who lives with the trio, adds: 'With two partners, I'll never have to leave my kids with someone I don't trust.'

'Dante and Oliver will grow up seeing Adam, Jane and I being affectionate and caring for each other. I think that's amazing.'

When he was growing up in the UK, Adam didn't have much success with women.

He says: 'At high school, I was voted the least likely to ever get a girlfriend. I believed that no girl would ever want me so I withdrew into myself. I became a nerd who stayed at home all day.'

But at the age of 25 whilst he was working as a janitor, Adam decided to learn how to pick up women.

'I started reading about pick-up artists and how you can use psychology to make yourself more attractive.

'In no time, I was sleeping with amazing women I could only have dreamed of back at school.'

Adam became so knowledgeable at seducing girls that he started a career as a dating coach - running the popular YouTube channel AFCAdamLondon.

'It felt like I could sleep with any beautiful woman that I wanted. At one point, I was dating fourteen girls at the same time - it was crazy!'

'Dating all of these girls became very stressful and boring - I realised that really I wanted to fall in love and settle down.'

In 2007, Adam met Alexandra*, who was five years his junior, at a nightclub in London and fell in love with her.

After dating for a year, they got married and started their new life together in Texas, USA where Alexandra came from.

'We had a very traditional, monogamous marriage. We were like any other normal, happy couple.'

But after three years together, things between the couple began to sour when Alexandra still wasn't ready to have children with Adam.

He says: 'I wanted to have kids as soon as possible but Alexandra had no interest in having any yet.

'The baby issue started causing other problems in our relationship. But Alexandra and I still loved each other and we didn't want to get a divorce.'

In a bid to save their marriage, Adam and Alexandra decided to give 'polyamory' a go - meaning they could have other sexual partners besides each other.

'It brought the two of us closer together. I even met and became mates with some of the men Alexandra was dating. It was really good bonding for us.'



But things got complicated between the pair when Alexandra suggested that Adam sleep with one of their mutual friends, Brooke.

'Alexandra and I were really close friends with a woman called Brooke, who was bisexual.

'By 2012, I had started spending a lot more time with Brooke - playing videos games and going on nights out together. We'd talk about the fantastic sex we were having with different people.

'Soon she'd become one of my best friends. One night, Alexandra and I were chatting about our other sexual partners and she suggested that I date Brooke.

'Alexandra thought we would make a great match and I agreed. I had always thought Brooke fancied women more that men but Alexandra encouraged me to make a move on her.'

Adam approached Brooke about the idea and the pair first had sex during a trip together.

Brooke, who worked as a bartender at the time, says: 'I had always liked Adam.

The two began sleeping with each other regularly and Adam ended relations with the other women that he had been dating before Brooke. He also realised that he wanted to end his marriage to Alexandra.

He explains: 'It soon became clear that Brooke and I were in love. Alexandra still didn't want children any time soon and she'd also begun dating a guy that she really liked too.

'Alexandra and I had a long chat and in late 2012, we decided to amicably separate. She moved into her own place with the man she was dating and I moved in with Brooke and her son, Oliver.'

Although Adam and Brooke were thrilled to be together finally, neither of them wanted to have a completely monogamous relationship.

In April 2013 they met photographer, Jane, in a nightclub in Texas and immediately hit it off with her.

Jane - who is bisexual but who had only been in a monogamous relationship before - says: 'I loved how there was no pressure to do anything when I first met Adam and Brooke.

'We just hung out, spoke and flirted at their house. I had never experimented with polyamorous relationships but with Adam and Brooke, it felt so natural. They were two awesome people.'

As their relationship became more serious, Adam and Brooke even introduced Jane into Oliver's life.

'Jane has taken on the role of being Oliver's friend, like a cool aunt to him. I knew that we could all be a happy family together.'

Jane, who is originally from Russia, adds: 'With Oliver, I am an adult who has authority but he also views me as a cool, older friend - someone who can cut him some slack and bend the rules for him a little.'

In early 2014, Brooke, Adam and her son moved to Los Angeles to be nearer to Jane. A few months later, they all bought a house that they could all live in together.

After a year of living as a trio, Adam and Brooke just gave birth to a baby boy, Dante in February and they hope to raise him together with Jane. Adam and Brooke strongly believe that three parents are better than two.

'It's also easier with three parents because usually, there's an extra adult around who can look after the child.

Adam says: 'Every so often, Jane, Brooke and I like to pick up another girl. Recently, we all had sex with a female bartender we knew - it was a crazy night of debauchery.'

Adam, Brooke and Jane are also open to the possibility of adding a permanent, fourth partner.




Source - Dailymail

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